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What Kind Of Builder Are You?

What Kind Of Builder Are You?

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Spiritual Development

My amazing mother sent me this story a while back. I loved it, and I'm sure you will too… ๐Ÿ™‚

Once upon a time, two brothers who lived on adjoining farms fell into conflict. It was the first serious rift in 40 years of farming side-by-side,sharing machinery and trading labor and goods as needed without a hitch.

Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference and finally, it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks of silence.

One morning there was a knock on John's door. He opened it to find a man with a carpenter's toolbox: "I'm looking for a few days' work," he said. "Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there I could help with? Could I help you?"

"Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you. Look across the creek at that farm. That's my neighbor. In fact, it's my younger brother!

Last week there was a meadow between us. He recently took his bulldozer to the river levee and now there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done this to spite me, but I'll do him one better. See that pile of lumber by the barn? I want you to build me a fence an 8-foot fence – so I won't need to see his place or his face anymore."

The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation. Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able to do a job that pleases you."

The older brother had to go to town, so he helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he was off for the day. The carpenter worked hard all that day – measuring, sawing and nailing. About sunset when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job. The farmer's eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped.

There was no fence there at all.

It was a bridge… A bridge that stretched from one side of the creek to the other! A fine piece of work, handrails and all! And the neighbor, his younger brother, was coming toward them, his hand outstretched..

"You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and done."

The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met in the middle, taking each others hand. They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox onto his shoulder.

"No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects for you," said the older brother.

"I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, "but I have many more bridges to build."

If you want to build even better bridges in your life…

Then be sure to check out my brand new "Instant Inner Peace" program. It'll help you develop the peace of mind to help co-create outer peace. ๐Ÿ™‚

Instant Inner Peace

(Video) Instant Inner Peace

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Product Recommendations

Recently I was at a mastermind with some of the top teachers in personal development, and my friend Tim (who I've told you about before) came up to me and said…

"What can we do together to serve more people this year?"

I thought about it and said "I'm not sure, and I'd love to do something with you."

"How about we create a product together?"

"Sounds fun, let's do it!"

Well if you remember from the last time I shared about Tim, one of the things I love about him is he's figured out how to simplify things into systems. In this case, he had a system for how we could quickly create a quality product together.

That conversation was last month. And today (yes, just a few short weeks later), I'm grateful to share with you the "Instant Inner Peace" product that we have co-created. ๐Ÿ™‚

Watch This Shoret Video To Learn More

The video is only a few minutes long and will bring you into the world behind WHY this product exists.

You'll also get to hear in Tim's own words how he perceives me and experienced our friendship developing.

Anger, Sadness, Confusion, Depression

Stop Feeling The Way You Know You Shouldn’t

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Spiritual Development

A while back I shared with you my thoughts about "The LIE About Positive Thinking." Today, I'd like to expand on that topic in a different way. Specifically, the question is: Is it okay to have our thoughts?
On the surface, it seems obvious. Of course it's fine to have our thoughts!

But what if they're judgmental? Or so anti-Law Of Attraction that they're negative or hurtful? Shameful? Is it okay to have those thoughts too?
I recall years ago that whenever I wanted to feel a specific kind of emotion, I'd change my music to something that mirrored what I wanted. If I wanted to feel energized, I put on Dream Theater, Van Halen, Metallica, or Robert Miles. If I wanted to feel mellow, I put on some Diana Krall, Enigma, or Enya. For whatever mood I wanted, I put in the music that would take me there.

It wasn't until I ventured further down my spiritual path that I realized how detrimental that was to myself. I thought I was doing myself a favor by "picking myself up" naturally. Sort of like when you have a bad day, and a friend comes over and says, "Hey, let's go shopping and get some dessert. Forget that loser ex of yours for a while."
On the surface, that seems empowering and compassionate. The intention is well. However, all those examples have one thing in common:


Each one of them is rejecting the moment. It's rejecting the person's experience. It's rejecting the possibility that being right where you are is exactly where you're supposed to be.  It is fundamentally saying to yourself, "Stop feeling the way you know you shouldn't." And as I teach in Liberate Your Life, every time you use the word "should" you're identifying with Your Inner Critic, limiting your growth and minimizing your happiness.
So then what's the alternative?

Honoring the moment.

Instead of telling yourself how to feel or trying to change how you feel, just accept it. With regards to my music, I found a real deep peace and a kind of magical mystery when I switched my mindset. Instead of finding music to cover up what I felt, to ignore my emotions, to try and transcend them, or try to evade them…

I found myself putting in music that honored exactly who I was in that very moment.

The result was profound. Instead of having an underlying agitated state of rejection and frustration, I was listening to the perfect music for that moment. Because the music was aligned with my inner state, there was a resonance which created a sense of peace.
It seems counterintuitive.

After all, sometimes I'd feel a deep sadness. Maybe an anger. Maybe shame. Delight and joy. Excitement. It could be anything. And yet when I put in music that completely honored the emotion I was experiencing, I also felt peace.

The other emotions didn't disappear. I didn't stop feeling sad or angry. What changed was that instead of rejecting my sadness or anger, I was at peace with it…

And that made all the difference.

Negative Childhood Experiences

4 Childhood Experiences We MUST Release To Move Forward

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Spiritual Development

Studies on the human mind have proven that as a child, our minds are like sponges. Everything we see, hear, encounter and experience gets absorbed deep in our subconscious minds, and continues to influence us from behind the scenes for much of our lives.

This subconscious influence can be either a blessing or a burden, depending on how it drives our thoughts, emotions and beliefs.

The ones that cause unwanted emotions like fear, self-doubt and negativity should be scrubbed from our subconscious minds – and the first step to achieving that is knowing exactly what childhood experiences are adversely affecting us and why.

Here are four of the most common types of childhood experiences we must release to move forward with our lives:

  1. Moments of uncontrollable, paralyzing fear
  2. Situations where procrastination paid off (in the short term)
  3. Inability to find a pursuit, skill or purpose that made your heart sing
  4. Moments of self-doubt caused by judgmental parents and role models

The above kinds of experiences create subconscious triggers that become implanted in our minds. These unfortunately work in the background like computer viruses, so we don't even know they're there or how they're holding us back.

They cause us to say things we don't mean, give in to bad habits, and make poor choices – that leave us frustrated and wondering "why?"

We'll go into more details on all four of those childhood experiences. Before we do, it would be really helpful to identify exactly which one is most likely negatively affecting you.

To help you do that, my friend Natalie Ledwell (see pic below) has created a quick eye-opening quiz that will bring you face-to-face with the BIGGEST Negative Childhood Imprint holding back your career and finances:

Discover Your #1 Negative Childhood Imprint

Empowered with that information, let's look at the four most common types of experiences that create Negative Childhood Imprints. And even though the quiz helped you identify the biggest one, if you're like me then you'll recognize yourself in ALL of these situations.

(unfortunately, but hey… we're all human and as they say "shit happens")

1. Moments of uncontrollable, paralyzing fear

Fear is a natural part of growing up. As children, we fear speaking on stage. We fear failing school exams. We fear asking out a potential prom date. We fear standing up to the school bully.

For most of us, that fear was validated when we failed at certain tasks or challenges – and the consequences left us embarrassed, unworthy and doubtful of our own abilities.

For some of us, that fear has solidified into a suit of armor we've carried into adulthood; an excuse to avoid taking risks or explore beyond our comfort zones.

Be mindful that our purpose in life is to grow; and fear is a necessary ingredient towards that growth. Even award-winning performers like Adele still get fearfully nervous on stage, but that doesn't stop them from stepping up time and time again.

And as George R.R. Martin says, "The only time a person can be truly brave is by first facing a fearful situation – and tackling it head-on anyway."

2. Situations where procrastination paid off (in the short term)

Our brains are hardwired to shield us from harm – which is good when you're stepping aside to avoid a falling tree; but not so good when your brain convinces you to stay put, sit still, and not do today what you can do tomorrow.

As children, we quickly begin to encounter situations where procrastination pumps us up with a (short-term) high.

Skipping homework to play video games is fun. Staying up a few extra hours past bedtime is nice. And mowing the lawn tomorrow so you can go play basketball today, sounds like a great idea.

Sure, just like smoking and eating unhealthy food, there are consequences to your temporary high – but once we become addicted to procrastination, pushing them to the back of your mind becomes second nature.

What makes procrastination even more damaging is that as we get older, the stakes get higher.

Our careers, finances and health all require our immediate attention.

…and sometimes holding off on an important task for even just a few days is enough for everything to come crashing down.

So don't procrastinate on shaking off your procrastination habit: respect yourself, your time and your life by treating it with the urgency it deserves.

3. Inability to find a pursuit, skill or purpose that made your heart sing

You probably remember at least a few people from your childhood who pursued a hobby or skill, like dancing, playing a musical instrument or a sport, and went on to turn that pursuit into a successful lifelong career.

Most of us, however, tend to drift away from the paths we explored as children, if we had the opportunity to explore any in the first place.

Instead, we follow what's available and convenient, sacrificing the discovery or pursuit of what truly fulfills us on a deeper level.

Then, as the bills, responsibilities and deadlines of adulthood stack up, we completely sideline any notion of honoring our passions; instead, we settle for admiring other people's passion-driven achievements.

But, as the German philosopher Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel said, "Nothing great in the world has been accomplished without passion."

On your deathbed, a passionless life will be one of your biggest regrets. So remember that honoring yours is equally as, or even more important than, wealth and professional stability.

4. Moments of self-doubt caused by judgmental parents and role models

From our grades to our fashion sense, it's normal for our parents, mentors, teachers and role models to act judgmentally towards us as we're growing up.

This behavior often boils down to a well-meaning protective streak that manifests as excessive scrutiny on our actions, decisions and academic performance.

Unfortunately, being constantly put under a microscope can manifest a sense of unease and nervousness each time we're faced with a decision that should be ours and ours alone to make.

"What will they think?" and, "Will I let them down?" are common questions we ask yourself when we're plagued by the self-doubt of excessive judgment.

To overcome this block, it's crucial that we reinforce the understanding that we are the captain of our own ships, and that nobody has the right to judge us.

While it is, of course, admirable to make our parents and mentors happy, our own happiness comes before anything else – and those who truly love us must remember this fact.

Knowing the 4 most common damaging childhood experiences isn't enough though.

It's crucial to know which one is affecting you most. The tricky thing is, because these experiences exist in yur subconscious minds, it's hard to figure this out by ourselves – in fact, the truth may be the complete opposite of what we think.

That's why my friend Natalie created her free 30-second quiz that, through a series of carefully arranged questions, helps you identify the primary childhood experience that is likely to be the most damaging to your career, finances and life.

(Or as she calls it, your Negative Childhood Imprint.)

After the quiz, you'll receive a personalized video report detailing your results, plus detailed action steps for erasing this Negative Childhood Imprint from your mind:

Click here to take the 30-second quiz and discover your most damaging Negative Childhood Imprint.

I especially love the timing with the fireworks in the background! ๐Ÿ™‚

Of the four types of Negative Childhood Imprints, which one is affecting you the most?

God's Three Answers To Prayers

God’s Three Answers To Prayers

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Spiritual Development

Let’s piggyback off of my previous blog post about getting support with this quote from one of my favorite motivational speakers, Nick Vujicic – a man with no arms, no legs… and it’s no problem.

I follow him on Facebook, and he posted something recently that really resonated with me. Enough so, that I felt like elaborating on it:

“God’s Three Answers to Prayers”

  1. Yes
  2. Not yet.
  3. I have something better in mind.

It really gave me pause – how often do we TRULY believe that God is answering our prayers?

We all love #1 and we can accept #2. But #3?

Nobody likes asking and not receiving. Of course if we KNEW something better was coming, we would be able to more easily accept not getting what we wanted. Especially if we knew what that something better actually was. ๐Ÿ™‚

Life doesn’t always work that way, though. And no matter how much we study manifesting and the Law of Attraction, there remains some immutable truths: We don’t always get what we want.

Is it because we’re bad at manifesting? Is it because the Law of Attraction isn’t a law… and doesn’t work 100% of the time?

Those questions might run through your mind. That’s normal. It’s also taking us away from the real opportunity here:

To experience Divine support.

To know that we ARE taken care of one way or another. It may not be how we want to be taken care of, yet we are still taken care of.

My belief…

(and by all means, don’t blindly adopt this idea without testing it & trying it out in your life)

Is that the real question of OUTER support depends on our INNER support. When we’re solid within ourselves and we seek to perceive our inner & outer worlds accurately, we empower the world around us to support us more effectively.

For example: If we can’t ask for what we want, it’s nearly impossible for it to be provided to us.

Or if our perception is so blocked that we can’t accept the *possiblity* that an unanswered prayer means something better is coming, then we can’t RECEIVE that possibility. The answer to our prayers might come, but our minds would be closed off to it and miss the opportunity.

Just like this parable about a drowning man…

While out to sea, a large boat became shipwrecked and there was only a single survivor. This man prayed and asked God to save his life. Soon thereafter, another boat came by and offered the man some help.

“No thanks,” he said. “I’m waiting for God to save me.”

The men on the boat shrugged their shoulders and continued. As the man became more deeply concerned, another boat came by. Again, the people aboard offered this man some help, and again he politely decline. “I’m waiting for God to save me,” he said again.

After some time, the man began to lose his faith, and soon after that he died. Upon reaching Heaven, he had a chance to speak with God briefly.

“Why did you let me die? Why didn’t you answer my prayers?”

“Actually, I sent you two boats.”

The man prayed for GOD, and what he received was two of God’s messengers.

My reflection questions for you:

  1. Are there any messengers you might have missed because they didn’t look the way you expected?

  2. If you truly believed that unanswered prayers would lead to something better, how might you live your life differently?
  3. What is one small action you can take today to show God that you completely trust… “this or something better”?
Getting Support

Getting Support

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Spiritual Development

A little over a year ago, I was going through an unexpected heartbreak. I had spent some time with an amazing woman, and I opened my heart up to dating her.

Unfortunately, she wasn’t in the same place.

And though we’re still wonderful friends and I value her Presence in my life greatly, at the time I took it really hard. In that pain, I realized a very simple truth:

Few of us actually ask for what we need in our lives.

I needed support. I needed to be seen, heard, and supported. This was difficult though because I live in a less-populated area with no close friends nearby.

I felt alone.

In the past when I felt alone, I’d withdraw even further. I’d hide and keep my feelings to myself. Part of me didn’t feel worthy to ask for support. Part of me was scared I wouldn’t receive it.

But I wasn’t that person anymore, and so I chose a different route.

I posted the following message to my small group of personal friends on Facebook:

“Going through a transformational time, and I’d like your support…

For many reasons, too often people are afraid to ask for what they want and need. That’s just plain silly though, since there’s a neverending well of support available to us for the asking.

So I’m asking!

“Please write a comment (or PM or text me) about something you like / love / appreciate about me.”

It’s important to notice I didn’t ask for help or well-wishes. That wasn’t the support I personally needed in that moment.

My heart was broken and I needed to feel loved. I needed to feel the fullness of my heart so that I could love myself back together again.

The comments people wrote were really touching and a powerful reminder of who I am, how I impact people, and the way I show up in the world.

And the reason I’m sharing this with you is because there are a LOT of ways that we often don’t ask for the support we want and need. Yet there’s so much available to us when we reach out and actually let people into our world… into our hearts.

So next time you find yourself feeling unsupported, look around and be curious what support might actually be available to you…

If you were to only ask.

Spontaneous Transformation

Wayne Dyer, Ram Dass, and Spontaneous Healing

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Free Spiritual Gifts

For almost a decade, I’ve been a listener of the “Healing With the Masters” free online program. I was a listener, then I became a partner, a speaker, and ultimately a personal friend of the host Jennifer McLean.

And twice a year, Jennifer launches a new series and she does some really cool stuff to celebrate. This time, she’s brought forth the following transformational delights for you to enjoy for free:

  • Wayne Dyer’s last 2 interviews with Jennifer before he passed away

  • Ram Dass “On Love”
  • The full-length feature film “Spontaneous Healing”
  • Live interactive 6-week “Healing With the Masters” workshop
  • Spontaneous Transformation Technique & Soul Song audio
  • Daily Heart Meditation audio
  • And a few more surprises… ๐Ÿ™‚

Start Your Spontaneous Healing Now For Free

It’s been a privilege to be supported by Jennifer for so many years, and it is equally a privilege to support her -and you- by sharing these powerful life-changing resources with you.

Wanna know more?

Read below and learn exactly what each resource is about…

Then sign up and pick your favorites. ๐Ÿ™‚

“The Spontaneous Transformation Movie”

You are now on a new journey.

Feel this right now… you have changed the trajectory of your life by the simple action of watching this compelling and beautiful movie.

All you have to do is click on the play arrow, sit back, and be moved, healed and shown a powerful and magnificent being (AKA you).

Through the process of watching and receiving, I suggest you pay close attention to your personal shifts and healing… witness the new you emerge.

Watch This Movie Now

Ram Dass “On Love”

“In the spiritual heart, loving awareness resonates upward and outward and you see everything with loving eyes. In the heart, there’s no judgment; you look at everything with love. The heart is the soul and as you go to the oversoul – to the One – you don’t look at love, you are love, you radiate love and because you radiate love, you live in a loving environment.”

Ram Dass naturally emanates the purest, most sacred love energy and, through this exclusive video interview, the deepest parts of your being will infuse with its potent, enlivening frequency.

You’ll get an in-depth understanding of the power of your energy and thoughts and you’ll discover how and why it’s important to identify with the soul.

Ram illustrates how you can ignite your field of unconditional, spiritual, heart-centered love, and cultivate and live from this nourishing place of loving awareness.

Prepare to let go of the past and future, learn to love everything as it is right now and align with the peace, grace, love, compassion, and joy within – even when there is a life adventure.

Watch ‘On Love’ Now

Wayne Dyer “In Memorium”

Audio One

“Pay attention, be astonished, share it with others.”

This enlightening Q&A show exemplifies Dr. Wayne’s timeless wisdom and influence and sparks new levels of self-love, strength and understanding.

Each interaction so perfectly demonstrates our ability to transform and re-write our reality with an open heart.

Dr. Wayne models for us, through the stories of his own life, how to live from the place of unconditional love, which allows all the changes you are looking for and all the things you want.

Prepare to go to the farthest depths of divine love, learn how to claim the love that you are and move into a powerfully new vibrational resonance with it.

Audio Two

This very special, sacred conversation delivers the most profound details for raising our consciousness and moving into our natural state of Divine oneness.

Wayne lovingly reminds us of our extraordinary nature and shares transformational insights for living a self-actualized life โ€” total contentment with unwavering peace, bliss, joy and love.

Through his personal stories of challenge and triumph, you’ll uncover your own purpose, understand how your choices pave your course to fulfilling your destiny and learn why there are NO wrong roads to anywhere.

Listen to Wayne Dyer’s Final HWTM Interviews

“Spontaneous Transformation Technique & Soul Song” Audio

Settle into this incredible experience and head down the path of discovery.

Align with the energies of this miraculous year, discover the themes that affect your life each and every day, and strengthen the vibrational energy signature that helps you retrieve ABUNDANCE, HEALTH and RELATIONSHIPS.

There is so much in store for you and you deserve the opportunity to flourish.

“Daily Heart Meditation” Audio

Mary A. Hall’s Daily Heart Meditation – A daily meditation to open and connect to heart, love and abundance

Unplug and embrace the beautiful power of Mary A Hall’s Heart Activation Resonance healing system.

Allow your most profound desires to come flowing into your world each and every day through this miraculous encoded energy. Take advantage of this special opportunity to connect with your heart and discover the beauty of true love and abundance.

Would You Choose Love Or Fear?

Will You Choose Love Or Fear?

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Spiritual Development

Here's a hypothetical situation that I hope nobody ever has to experience…

Suppose a terrorist has taken you and your family hostage, and this terrorist says:

"You have two choices. Choice #1: Walk away from your family and I'll spare all your lives. The only catch is, you can never talk to them again.

"Or you can take Choice #2: Go through a series of extensive challenges and tests. They're some of the hardest in the world. The tests change as you take them. And they could take you months or even years to complete.

"During your testing period, you won't see your family at all. If you pass all of the tests, I will set you and your family free. If you don't pass, I will kill you and torture your family for several years."

Sure it's a very extreme example. But it serves to answer one simple question: When faced with extreme adversity, will you choose love or fear?

It's easy to choose love when life is good. And even during times of normal adversity, choosing love doesn't have to be difficult. However, it's when life gets the most difficult that we have to decide if we'll continue on the path of love or if we will identify with fear. That's not an easy decision to make. It seems like it should be.

Choose love, right? Always choose love?

Except for two things. First, we have a lot of historical programming that directs our attention towards fear. Secondly, the example above challenges the notion that we always know the best way to express love.

One of those choices guarantees that everybody lives… but doesn't guarantee they live happily. Maybe they do after healing from the trauma and separation. Maybe the trauma and separation destroy their lives. You can't be certain. That choice expresses love through a guarantee of protection. The outcome is certain. Unfortunately, the rewards are limited.

The other choice expresses love through courage. The path is uncertain. The outcome is uncertain. And the rewards are limitless. Another way of asking the "love or fear" question is this: Is the greatest risk worth the greatest reward?

Like I said, it's an extreme example. The thing is though, it's not so far off from reality. We are making these kinds of smaller decisions every single day.

Will you be totally authentic with your partner?
– Risk: Rejection, conflict, and pain, destruction of family.
– Reward: Profound intimacy and unbridled happiness.

Will you give your employer (or business) 100%?
– Risk: Going unnoticed, failure, being overworked, bankruptcy, and more.
– Reward: Increased pay, promotions, flourishing business, global change.

Will you dedicate your life to personal transformation?
– Risk: Wasted time, ineffective results, wasted money, disillusionment.
– Reward: A life of peace, joy, happiness, and love.

In each example, the choice is between love and fear.

Most people give "just enough" to their relationships, their work, and their personal transformation efforts. It's almost like the example above: They are identifying with just enough fear so that they protect themselves with limited rewards. They aren't choosing to giving themselves fully to the world and thereby reaping the greatest rewards possible.

We can't always know the risks and rewards in advance. Life is too uncertain, too fluid, to mysterious for that. What we can know are our values. We can practice risk versus reward and love versus fear in smaller safe situations. Then we can work up to bigger situations.

Practice being authentic with a llfe coach or best friend. Practice giving 100% to a new business adventure in your spare time. Practice devoting 6 months to a single personal transformation program without distraction. For just a brief period in your life, in a safe context, simply choose unconditional unrestrained love.

See if the risks are worth the rewards. See if love conquers fear. Find out what's true for you.

See What Your Name Says About You

Introducing You To…. Yourself :-)

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Product Recommendations

Every now and then, something comes along that just BLOWS me away…

Something that makes me say “That was so cool, I can’t wait to share that!”

In this case, we’re talking about YOU.

See, a couple of months ago I was hanging out with my friend Blair and he showed me a project he’d been working on. He loves doing “cool stuff” with technology, and since I was in the tech industry I’ve always loved cool software…

And what he showed me I completely geeked out over. ๐Ÿ™‚ It’s stuck in my brain as one of the coolest things I’ve seen on the internet in a very long time.

I kept asking him when I could share it, and he kept saying “It’s not ready yet.” That’s because he’s one of those super-high integrity people, with an incredibly generous heart, and he wanted to make sure it worked perfectly before he allowed anybody to share it.

That didn’t stop me from pestering him… And asking again and again and again and again. ๐Ÿ™‚

Well, a couple of weeks ago he finally caved in and gave me the green-light to share it with you.

I’ve never seen anything like it before… and it has me excited about how I can use technology to serve you better.

What Blair did is create a free online numerology video report – that actually customizes itself to you AS you watch it. It’s unreal, and it’s one of the few things that I’m not just grateful to share… I’m EXCITED to share.

This is super-fun, super-cool, and you don’t even have to enter your email address – ever.

See What Your Name Says About You

The first time I took it, I was surprised at how accurate it was. I’d say about 90% of it, I kept nodding and saying “Yeah. Yup. Uh-huh. That too.”

As a techie, I find it kind of addicting to watch. Especially because the longer the video goes, the MORE customized it becomes to me.

Whether you believe in numerology or not isn’t the point here. I’m 100% certain you’ll be impressed with the technology Blair has been working on for YEARS to make this work, and more importantly (and relevant to the subject line of this email)…

I believe that when you have “yourself” mirrored back to you, the insights you gain will help you in your life. They’ll help you become even MORE of the amazing YOU that you already are.

Get Your Free Customized Numerology Report Here

Don’t take my word for it though…

Give it a try and see for yourself ๐Ÿ™‚

Get Your Free Customized Numerology Report Here

Actual Conversations With My Son

Actual Conversations With My 9 Year Old Son

Written by Chris Cade on . Posted in Random Stuff

My son is now 9, and for most of his life he -like many children- calls it like he sees it. Sometimes he’s got a pretty solid view on a situation, and other times his youthful innocence and lack of worldly knowledge come through.

No matter what though, he always seems to create some really memorable moments. Not because he’s trying to be funny, but precisely the opposite: Because he’s not.

Anyway, here’s a few conversations we’ve had over the last year that I thought you’d enjoy. If you look deeper than the surface, you’ll see there’s actually spiritual lessons to be learned.

Enjoy ๐Ÿ™‚

Me: “It’s time to take your shower.”

My Son: “I don’t want to take a shower. I want to take a bath.”

“Okay, it’s time to take your bath.”

…Suddenly, he starts running laps across the entire house as fast as he can.

“It’s time to take your bath!”

He keeps running…


“Daddy, I’m trying to run so fast that I can’t hear you.”

Me: “When we get home, the first thing you need to do is brush your teeth.”

My Son: “Unless a meteor hits us.”

Me: “True. If a meteor hits us, we will be dead. So assuming a meteor doesn’t hit us before we get home, brush your teeth first.”


“Daddy – do you have any cavities?”

“No new ones. I have some from several years ago.”

“Do you have silver things in your mouth? Johnny has those.”

“No. I used to and I had them removed.”

“Why, Daddy?”

“Because those are made with mercury and are toxic.”

“What’s that mean?”

“Mercury is bad for the brain.”

“OH! That’s why Johnny went to the office so much this week!”

I was about to leave on a trip to visit my then-girlfriend who lived in another state…

“Daddy, I’m going to miss you.”

“I know. And I’ll see you in a couple of days.”

“I wish you had a copy. That way you could go see her and still stay here and play with me. Don’t you wish you had a copy?”

“Yup. That would be cool! Then I could stop you from taking advantage of Grandpa and eating lots of junk food while I’m gone.”


“Daddy, you can go see her now. Go.”

My Son: “I use my anger to hit the golf ball hard.”

“Is there something specific that you’re angry about?”

“Yeah. That I can’t get the ball in the hole.”

(Welcome to golf, my son. Welcome to golf…)

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